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Its been quite awhile that I have been single now... going on a little over 3 years. I dont understand why. I think that Im a pretty smart girl when it comes to relationships, dating, meeting people... but apparently that isnt the case or else I would have a better history. Is it something that Im just completely out of the loop on? Did I miss the memo somewhere?
I have ideas on what I think boys like but it doesnt seem to match. Ok so they want smart girls, pretty- of course, not a mooch, probably a rockin body, funny, and probably generally overall nice... hello! i have most of those qualities! maybe not the rockin body quite yet but at least i got some b.a. curves. I dont know if this is even an excuse but its hard when you dont have a lot of single friends. My friends are superb and probably the best a gal could ask for but its understandable if they arent trying to meet single guys because they dont need one. Whats a gal to do then? Maybe it will be different once I start school. Its just hard I guess because I dont know what to do. People ask me... why arent you dating any one? Well if I had an answer I probably would be dating, and getting tons of aaaaction. Plus where do singles go??? Haha. I dont drink, so bars are out. Im not a Ho, so clubs are out. I dont like coffee, so coffee shops are out. Im not really religous, so church is out. I just dont know. I guess it could be my attitude too, Im pretty open to meeting new people, but I know what I like and If I dont find it, I dont really want to mess around, but the weird thing is I thought most people know what they want?! Is this not true? Am I just supposed to go around w/ a blank slate and just hang out w/ every dude available. Hhhmm... I dunno. I am kinda shy when it comes to boys, but not once you get to know me. So thats probably my handicap, but I can flirt every once and awhile, but even then I dont seem to catch anything good. I dont think I understand the line of being too forward and being coy. Which one is more sexy, fun, or appropriate? There seems to be a lot of expectations to live up to for girls, its just finding the right combination. I dont think Ill be single forever, I just dont want to wait til forever to find out if im right or not.