Wednesday, February 4, 2009

again...

so there is a difference between being a bad girl and being a bad a$$ girl. i would say im in the second category. bad a$$ girls are the ones that get things done, they know what they want and they do what they want. its not a matter of being nice or mean or anything like that. im definitely a nice girl but that doesnt mean i follow the crowd or dont think for myself. yes sometimes i have a hard time explaining my feelings but i definitely have them and i am still as sassy as can be.
the difference is that bad girls do things for attention, they get in fights for attention... are ho's or whatever. they dont do it to make a difference or to change the world. their actions have no effect on any one except themselves. so i will never get too old to be a bad a$$ girl, but bad girl antics are high school stuff, not grown up stuff. if you want things done you have to get them done but in a way that will be remembered and changed forever, not in a sloppy look at me way. there is a huge difference.
obviously this is something i think about a lot because im a girl... yep its true. and i think as a girl sometimes we are put in different categories whether they are true or not and these are some categories i think should be seperated and very different from eachother.